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About how to have a winning attitude:-

Read about what a winning attitude can do for you, your family and your career. Your attitude is the most important factor about you and how you react in certain situations. See how you can affect others and help them succeed too.

How to Have a Winning Attitude

A person needs to have a winning attitude in order to be successful in his/ her life.  Given below are seven suggestions that could build up a winning attitude in you:


Passion – A desire, energy is needed as a fuel to reach their true potential. You should have a driving force deep within you to be successful.


Belief – You should be able to believe in yourself that you can do it.


Strategy  -  A strategy is your game plan in life. You should design a proper strategy to achieve your success without detours of life, to find the shortest distance between two points.


Clarity of Values – Without a clear system of values for yourselves, it is impossible to believe in something with a passion that has no value to us.


Energy - Great success cannot be separated from physical, spiritual and mental energy that allows us, compels us, to accomplish the most with what we have to work with.


Bonding power – “to effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.”


Mastery of communication – To take charge and run your own mind.

“There is only one success – to be able to spend your life in your own way.” – Christopher Morley. A positive mental attitude is an absolutely indispensable prerequisite for success. Your winning and positive attitudes determine how well you do and how far you go in life.


Your mind is like a garden, whatever you plant, it will return back to you. If you plant negative thoughts and continuously feed and nourish those thoughts then that is what will grow in your life. On the other hand if you constantly think positive and optimistic thoughts then your life will be positive and optimistic. You cannot plant one type of thought in your mind and expect a different result to grow. Here is an often told old story about two six year old boys:


One boy was an optimist and the other was a pessimist. This difference concerned the parents so they took the boys to see a therapist to see if there was some way to create an even temperament in the boys.


The therapist decided to put the pessimist in a room full of the latest toys and video games and he optimist in a room full of horse manure. This would make the one more optimistic and the other more pessimistic.


After several hours had passed the therapist went into the room full of toys and found the pessimistic boy in tears. When asked what the problem was the boy said “I don’t know what to play with first, and I’m afraid I’ll break something”.


The therapist then went into the room full of manure. There he found the optimistic child singing and dancing with joy in the manure. When questioned by the therapist why he was so happy about being in horse manure, the boy said, “With all this manure, there must be a pony here somewhere.”


This story is an exaggeration of what a winning attitude looks like. No matter how stinky things get, there’s a gift in it somewhere and somehow.


Successful people think and talk about the things they want. They talk about achieving goals, good health, happiness and prosperity. So have a winning attitude and prosper in life.

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