Women everywhere want to know one thing for sure whether or not their men are the one for them. It is very direct and clear question, but a bit complex when it comes to the solution. In order to trace down the answer for that question many other questions should be clarified. The suggestions given below will aid you find the one.
Initially you have to figure out what kind of a person you want to be with for the rest of your life in a realistic manner. It really helps to be realistic, but you also should be clear about what is utterly important to you.
Try your best to be honest with each other.
You may be in a great relationship at the moment but it doesn't mean both of you do not have any issues at all. It will be difficult to discuss certain issues at times but it's better to talk about it than burying it deep inside your heart, this will ensure a strong bond between the both of you.
Always remember that nobody is perfect, hence you should be able to accept his flaws, flaws which you are have having trouble accepting should be discussed with your man.
Some men can easily and meaningfully express their love towards you by saying I LOVE YOU, but there are men who have trouble doing that. Instead they try to use other form of expressions like taking you out for dinner just to give you a break from cooking is his own way of showing his love and affection towards you. In these cases just keep in mind that your man's actions speaks louder than words.
He must be able to understand you and try to see your side of the things.
You should be able to see whether he listens to you and gives you his undivided attention. This indicates that he is concerned about your feelings.
It is important for you to discuss about family, career, love, health, money, etc. openly with him so that you will surely know whether both of you share the similar perspectives.
If his friends and family like you that implies that you mean more to your man and that they all have accepted you as their own.
He gives you compliments, shares and asks for your opinions, appreciates your achievements and is proud of you. He also takes good care of you when you are sick setting his work aside. This simply denotes that he will be there for you when you need him.
A great guy will make you feel great and special, he will be eagerly interested in what you like and want. He is happy when he is around you, he smiles, he is excited and enjoys every moment with you, and best of all he makes you feel the same about him.
sychologists have found that knowing whether or not someone is the one takes relatively long time. The strongest relationships are based on very deep friendship, respect, understanding and mutual attraction. In a nutshell a person who gives you respect and you respect him in return, whom you admire and he admires you in return, someone you can really talk to, who understands you, who wants the same things as you do, share similar life goals to yourself will possibly be "THE ONE"