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10 Things to avoid on a first date |
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Before the first date, most of the people think too much. As a matter of fact you are afraid you might screw up, that you will be tongue – tied the entire time you are together, or that you might become a lousy date. Don’t fret; you’re not alone. Many have gone through these jitters too. And it is usual. Don’t be too hard on yourself by backing out just because you feel like you can’t make it. It’s just a matter of knowing what to avoid making your date click. Given below are some things that you should avoid on a first date:
- Don’t be late – Choose your outfit the night before, so that you won’t hurry dressing up for your date. Make sure that when your guy knocks on your door, you are all set. Be careful not to cram. Having your date stand for 10 minutes on your day will not create a nice impression.
- Do not narrate break – up history on your date – You’re supposed to have fun and not sour grape over your most recent break – up. Instead of dwelling in the past, know this new guy in front of you more. Ask him about his favorite sports, hobbies, interests and more.
- Don’t be tongue – tied – Don’t let your date ask you where your mouth is because you cannot think of anything to say. Let him get to know you better. Men want their women to be witty and sensible.
- Do not compare – The man in front of you is totally a different individual. It will be unfair to pattern him to your previous guy or make a lot of comparison. You should discover the person in front of you and forget the past guy even his name if you wish to.
- Do not come in your worst appearance – In order to create a good impression be on your best attire. Look good and smell fresh. That way, you can captivate his attention the entire time you are together. And he’ll be proud of you as a date.
- Do not be silly – Look smart. Do not talk things as if you’re a pro if in reality you are clueless. You would end up saying the wrong things that will confuse your date a lot. Ask him questions. He will be amused because you are paying interest on what he is talking about.
- Do not be aloof – Remember, it is both your first time to see each other. So, he is equally nervous about your date. Don’t make him feel nervous by being distant. Be friendly enough to give him your sweet smile. Don’t give him a cold shoulder.
- Try not to be nervous – Don’t worry too much about having a great date instead enjoy your date. Show him you can manage yourself well. Be confident Look straight in his eyes when you answer his questions. Flash your best smile. Guys love women who are empowered.
- Don’t interview him – Don’t make it appear as if he’s applying for a job. You’ll both be more relaxed if you’re not interrogating him.
- Eat heartily – If dinner is part of your date, avoid the typical “I’ll just have a salad” restaurant order. Choose a reasonable price entrée and actually eat it. Many men, however, prefer to see a woman actually enjoy her food – especially if he’s paying for it. You don’t have to eat every single bite, but try to do more than just pick at your food.
Making that first date a success takes a lot of work but the benefits are worth it. |
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