Single moms and dads face many challenges in the ensuing weeks and months after a divorce; one of which often includes finding a new house or home. Especially in the current economic climate, single parents can be hard pressed to continue living in the same home as before their divorce.

While most adults wouldn't choose to move back in with their parents, there are circumstances where the option works well for everyone involved. Sometimes older parents need the assistance of their adult children to continue to maintain their independence. Other times, financial constraints will force both parties to combine households either temporarily or permanently. Often though, recently divorced moms or dads move home only long enough to get on their feet financially. Whatever the scenario; adjustments are part of the process. Take a look at the considerations below to help make any moving back home transition easier.

• Communicate with candor before making a move. Frankly discuss potential snags and challenges you might encounter as you join households.
• Discuss the reasons why you want (need) to move back home. Be clear on intent, is this a temporary, transitional or permanent move?
• Compose a list of family living rules. Every household has a set of unwritten "acceptable" guidelines for healthy family life; talk about yours (and theirs).
• Divide household responsibilities. List chores and then delegate. Keep a written calendar out in the open so everyone can be reminded of his or her tasks.
• Have regular family meetings. Keep accounts short by gathering the entire family together often to share what's working/what isn't with each other.

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