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Did You Choose To Believe It? By : David Samuel The question of having a choice is an interesting one about personal power, it is one we choose to believe. If you truly had a choice in your life and actions, would you do the many things you do that are detrimental to your self or others? How many times a month, a week, a day, do you say to yourself, 'Why did I do that? I know better, I knew I shouldn't have done that.' You did it because you do not have the ability to choose. Personal growth is gaining the ability to choose freely. Harmonizing The Minds By : David Samuel There are several steps in the process of self-improvement and finding Inner peace and happiness described in this article. These steps may take some time to complete, and I intended to give you an idea of the path of personal growth that will work towards eliminating ignorance. Control Your Mind and Forget The How By : Jackie McKay The last couple of months, I’ve been talking about aiming for a MUCH bigger vision in my business, in my life, and in my purpose. I’ve hired a virtual assistant, a bookkeeper, a house keeper, a website designer... How To Know When To Let Go, And How By : David Samuel How do you know when to let go, in business or personal situations in life. This is a very difficult question, but one that is vital to living a life that continuously moves forward. Afterall this planet is moving through space at 1,350,000 miles an hour, so we may as well keep moving also, it is just logical. Besides that, everything is always moving either forward or back. Find The Demon Inside Your Mind By : David Samuel How often do you know what you should or should not do, and then do the opposite? How can this be explained given that you assume yourself to be a normal, sane person. Why do we consciously go against nature and hurt ourselves? Positive Thinking : Do Our Thoughts Create Events Or, Do Events Create Our Thoughts By : David Samuel Positive Thinking : Do we create events or do the events form our way of thinking, and then once formed, do we influence events. we will explore how can thoughts be changed? Aim and Your Essential Nature By : David Samuel If you don't have an aim, little in your life can progress. Your aim is the engine that drives your life forward. A correct and appropriate aim for your essential nature is key. The Devil Makes Work for Idle Hands By : Lone Worker Have you ever thought about how you think? Are you even aware that you thoughts are powerful things that shape the fabric of your life? When I was a child I used to hear the phrase "be careful what you wish for". When you begin to truly understand the impact that our thoughts have on our actions that saying takes on a far more powerful meaning. Right thinking, wrong thinking, it really is a matter of choice. The question is what choices do you make? Creating a Vision Board to Manifest Your Desires By : Kelly Whetstone A fantastic manifesting tool and really fun project is a Vision Board. A Vision Board is simply a collage of images and affirmations that represent your desire. Creating a vision board is a creative meditation. You focus your attention on creating a visible representation of the intention that you want to manifest. You are in the present moment with your intention and you are feeding it with your attention. Attention is love. Proof that Hypnotherapy Is Not Just Quackery By : RoseannaLeaton We human beings are adept at turning a blind eye to certain things in life, often for no good reason. Many people ignore hypnosis simply because they do not understand what it is or how it can be of great benefit. Do To Others As You Would Have Them Do To You…. By : Anthony, Sr. I have begun taking a “watcher” type of view point over the last few months and I have learned some interesting things I would like to share with you. I can remember as a child the countless amounts of adults sharing with us, young people how we must live by the golden rule of life. The one rule that seemed to top the charts was the classic “Do to others as you would have them do to you”. This rule when looked at from the surface sounds like I great way to teach by example. The big disconnect for me now that I am an adult is that I see too many adults not leading by a very good example. What If… By : Anthony, Sr. What if is a question that we all have asked ourselves at one time or another? I just wanted to take some time and truly explore the depths of this internal dialog just a little further. This statement is truly a powerful one, because it evokes thought s that take you towards the next step towards a course of action. What if your present state of affairs were solely your responsibility to control and fix; would you start processing the applicable solutions to bring you to your desired outcome? 12 Steps to Personal Success By : Joanne Victoria Are you still living in the past, the past of mistakes, sadness and if- onlys? Is negative thinking holding you back from a joyful and abundant future? To look at the past, and say what if I did that instead is not only a waste of time, it is a waste of energy. You cannot bring new energy or life into the present if you are still focused on the past. A positive and a negative will cancel each other out. First, you need to look at the past issue, and name it.    Improving Memory Through Logical Reasoning By : David Samuel Many people think they have a bad memory or simply cannot think straight. Maybe it has not memory at all but rather is the way thought is processed? Unleasing the Passion of Innocent Sensual Sustaining Self-Liberty By : Paula Andrea Pyle Children are our natural born teachers. In the course of the day, IF we would but emulate the guiltless actions, words, gestures, characteristics, and spontaneous interactions of a small child, our lives would open immeasurable secrets. Taking Time to Think By : CoachManny When was the last time you did that in an atmosphere where you really could think and listen and just see what comes to you? Be honest. When was the last time your mind could be free to open up and see what comes in? Providing Science-based Solutions for the Global Healthcare and Performance Crises By : Faiez Kirsten “The world has been facing many crises for many years now. The crises in health care and performance (individual and organizational) feature prominently amongst them. Why are we still faced with these crises?” MODE of Cosmic Therapy Esoteric Psycho-Analysis How to Peel Back the Layers of Superficial Antagonis By : Paula Andrea Pyle We must stop to evaluate the temperatures of our inner barometers. IF for any reason, we are not acting out of sheer unadulterated passion, then, we are like numbed crazed zombies looking for the next shooting of the film, “Night of the Living Dead.” Confronting the Demons of Denial, Disillusion, Despair, Despondency, Disgrace, Dread and Dishonor By : Paula Andrea Pyle We are so dubiously attached to and inseparably identified with the outer world of appearances, we associate our basic needs, substantial drives and inarticulate demands directly from the source of the farce we have so cleverly invented. MODE of Cosmic Therapy Esoteric Psycho-Analysis Romancing Intense Capricious Sensual Feelings By : Paula Andrea Pyle We are so effortlessly influenced by our feelings. We wholeheartedly believe them to be substantial, dependable and accurate. Purity of Purpose Defining the Unsettled Areas in Ourselves Relationships Careers and Lives By : Paula Andrea Pyle ‘Nothing’ is at it appears to be. And, we have very little to say or do about whatever occurs. No Guarantees No Delays Living a Life of Authentic Passion on Your Terms By : Paula Andrea Pyle A lot of people use the excuse of ‘not being the right time’. No other time is more conducive for you to live unpretentiously. You simply can’t postpone desire. Desire produced the sperm which fertilized the egg in your mother’s womb. Unexpected Unplanned Unmitigated Life My Kind of Journey an ‘Always Open’ Road By : Paula Andrea Pyle Nothing is for certain. We are not locked in. Everything is at our disposal. We are as free as the wind. Summoned to the Coveted Celestial Table of Creative Expression You, Bali and Komodo By : Paula Andrea Pyle Let’s just assume that you live a relatively long life of say, 80 years. If we figure the hours you have, not counting the ones you’ve already used up in doing whatever it is you do, then that would be: assuming an 80 year span includes 20 leap years, then 80 years is equal to (60 x 365 x 24) + (20 x 366 x 24) = 525600 + 17280 = 542880 hours. Sacred Germination Be Fruitful and Multiply Sowing and Reaping Our Sublime Innate Gifts By : Paula Andrea Pyle WE are intricately, intimately and inestimably connected to all of life’s unfathomable germinating, assimilating and manifesting processes. In fact, we could say we are continually involved in the circular lovemaking process of giving and receiving. Stop Procrastinating With Hypnosis Help By : RoseannaLeaton Procrastination is often but not always caused by a fear of failure. It is also the biggest cause of failure. To stop procrastinating you have to examine the emotions which underlie it. A Shocking And Disturbing Reality About Low Self-Esteem By : David Samuel People will never change if they think they are alright. This is simply logical, why put in effort to fix what is not broken. We must see and realize that it is NOT alright to accept anything and everything. To accept mediocrity and negativity negates the possibility of progress. How To Be Irresistible and Irreplaceable By : Jackie McKay For many years I’ve been doing something that has been so natural that I had no idea it was a “marketing strategy”. Nobody’s Perfect By : David Samuel Everyone accepts that nobody is perfect and it is impossible for anyone to be perfect. At the same time, almost everyone would like to know and be in unity with God, or whatever term you use for what you perceive as a greater being. The problem is that God is perfect and there is no way for anyone to be in unity with perfection unless you are perfect yourself. How can you have a desire to unify with perfection when you accept that it is impossible for you to be perfect? How Making Decisions Relates To Depression And Happiness By : David Samuel Scientific studies show that people who feel they have no control over their life are more prone to depression, but people who feel they have control over their life in general are happy and positive. Therefore we can say in a generality that a feeling of lack of control leads to depression. We liken the mind to the tires of a car, in that a poor quality tire gives a very poor ability to control the car, it will not be stable to drive with an off balance wobbly or flat tire. If your mind is not Our Indomitable Descent Determines our Incalculable Ascent By : Paula Andrea Pyle Most often times, people stare straightway into the face of their most profound desires and then, turn away because someone says it would not be good for them, it won’t make them any money, or they aren’t cut out for that particular path. How To Make Life Roll Smoothly In Perfect Control By : David Samuel For a bike wheel to roll smoothly, all the spokes must be strong and well connected. They connect to the hub. The hub is the central point of the wheel and connects to the axel. As I discovered by my own experience, when one spoke out of the 20 on my bike wheel broke, the whole wheel was wobbly and I could not ride safely. The Buddhist view of Karma, the principle of cause and effect, is seen as a wheel, the wheel of Karma. Your life, and the events in it, roll on this wheel. If your actions a Why Must You Have A Purpose Driven Life? By : Anthony, Sr. A purpose driven life is necessary for proper direction and focus. The human mind is one of the most spectacular creations known to man and we still do not know all of its inner workings. With that being said, the mind possesses some traits that can make life challenging, if not properly directed. A mind that is not directed towards something will have a tendency to jump around in a sporadic nature. This jumping around nature will surely make life hard to control. Relationships: Approaching Dissecting Understanding Ourselves from an Esoteric Physicist’s Viewpoint By : Paula Andrea Pyle He would approach the investigation by either one or two ways; applying the action (relationship) as part of a larger system usually referred to as 'laws' or by observing the decomposition (break down or break-up) involved in the termination of the involvement into smaller and smaller molecular forms of supposed motion, determined by its polar opposite migration. Law of Attraction Coach Shares 5 Lessons Her Mother Could Never Teach Her By : Nanette Geiger Mothers are the most important things on this planet. That doesn't mean that they're perfect though. They're people, just like everyone else, and just as fallible. In this article as a tribute to my own Mother, I'd like to share 5 lessons that my Mother could never teach me. What Is Your Greatest Personal Strength? By : RoseannaLeaton We have strengths and we have weaknesses. Some of us will go through life accepting our weaknesses whilst others will strive to grow and change. MODE of Cosmic Therapy Esoteric Psycho-Analysis: Cutting Edge Psychology By : Paula Andrea Pyle Informed, educated and empowered make the difference Worldly Happiness in Seven Steps By : Dr Robert Henry Schwenk Need to have your environment change? Stuff going on that makes you sad? Here are seven steps to help you have a great life. Don't Pop the Pimple By : Paula Andrea Pyle Human beings are ingenious in the telling of their stories. They rattle off all sorts of calibrated situations, embellished circumstances and complicated intricately woven events which make for the enriched 'soil to toil' in their furtively imaginative lives. It goes with the territory of being alive. Insistence and impatience rules the roost. Like the nasty little pimple, people won't just let it dissolve. They try to get rid of it as soon as possible.(what a waste) Mindset Mastery and the Law of Attraction By : Nanette Geiger What does it mean to you to have mastery of the Law of Attraction? Law of Attraction Coach Nanette Geiger shares. The Sublimely Sacred Role Infidelity Plays in a Loving Committed Relationship By : Paula Andrea Pyle n other words, we are to experience, in this dispensation of time, the pertinent lessons needed to eliminate the negative attributes which in the past have prevented us from enjoying a full exceptionally free flowing fun loving sexually stimulating attractive magnetized energetic enthusiastic productive artistic sacredly productive life. The Law of Attraction Doesn't Play Favorites By : Nanette Geiger We've all heard the short definition of the Law of Attraction: Like attracts like, right? It seems that this simple explanation has caused more confusion than clarity. Most people think this definition it to be taken literally. Fame, Fortune,Wealth, Love, Happiness and Riches: How to Push The "On" Button By : Paula Andrea Pyle All things are intricately connected, therefore, the extenuating diverse relationships attached are necessary and vital. Let Go! By : Laurinda Jones When I came home from a busy day at work, I sat down outside in the garden, trying to regain some strength. My body felt tense but I could not think of a reason why it should be. Until Mother Nature gave me a Secret Pearl of Guidance to help me let go of stress. People Don't Change; Seasons Do By : Paula Andrea Pyle You want something, ANYTHING, to happen to make you genuinely care. {Give a damn} but, NOTHING ever does. Healing your Body Using Your Mind – Using Law of Attraction to Heal Yourself By : Jasmine Kaloudis, Holistic Lifestyle Expert Illness in any form is nothing more than our negative energies choking off so much of our Life-flow that cellular damage results. The body is not separate from the universe, so when we think a thought, the vibrations run through the body as well as everywhere else. Best Seats in the House: Ambiguity and Paradox MODE of Cosmic Therapy© By : Paula Andrea Pyle We are to abandon the idea and any recognizable reference to hope. Hope implies doubt. If we hope for a better tomorrow we are admitting our today is less than perfect. The Law of Attraction Lets Your Ideas to Turn Into a Future By : Nanette Geiger Ever seen the swimming section of the Olympic Games? Out of thousands of prospective candidates, only 3 will location. The initial location winner gets the gold. Intoxicating Scent of the Moment By : Paula Andrea Pyle You are alive! Breathing, thinking, loving, working, striving, competing, comparing, eating or having eaten, sleeping, going to the bathroom, having sex, working, shopping, writing, creating, laughing, relaxing, calculating, manipulating, construing, defining, tabulating, talking, along with a million other things you engage in. How To Cope With Uncertainty By : RoseannaLeaton Uncertainty can be an uncomfortable feeling if you give in to it. But there are ways in which you can turn situations around so that you feel confident and comfortable. Want To Get More? Love What You Already Have By : Kelli Cooper The secret to acquiring more in life is showing gratitude for what you already have. The tendency to focus on what we do not like in our lives and what is missing creates an energy that repels the positive changes we seek The Law of Attraction Puts Responsibility For Your Beliefs Square In Your Control By : Nanette Geiger Studies have shown that most normal humans only have the ability to access ten percent of our brain's functioning. That is to say, every conscious thought that comes into your awareness, every conscious endeavor you put your mind to, all of this encompasses only a relatively small portion of your entire consciousness. What You Ought To Know About The Art Of Conversational Hypnosis By : Steven Frosten Conversational or covert hypnosis is the skill adopted in communicating with another person’s subconscious mind without them being aware of it. As it often takes place in the course of apparently normal conversation, it is known as conversational hypnosis. We Talk Too Much But Are We Really Listening To What We Are Not Saying? By : Paula Andrea Pyle We are basically unconscious beings. On that one premise, alone reams of unsurpassed power in absolute knowing are elicited. When the unconscious speaks, (still small voice) it rattles the foundation. I think you would agree, too little of hearing what the unconscious has to say takes place on a daily basis. Bottom line: the more we don’t have a clue, the more definitely we know what to do Law of Attraction Coach Says You Should Look To Your Playful Kids By : Nanette Geiger Are you having trouble focusing your intentions to manifest what you want? You should take a step back before you keep reading. Take a step back and realize that you are trying to accomplish something, and that is admirable. Psychological Art of Undistorted Communicating in Relationship By : Paula Andrea Pyle The ideas we possess of ourselves are NOT the manifestations of what others accept. They accept their particular interpretation of what we send out. The energy must pass through the barriers of filtered distortion they have accumulated throughout their lives. OH, yes. WE do the same distorting mangling method in our perceptions of them, too! Pressing Law of Attraction Questions Addressed By : Nanette Geiger Some people simply pass off the Law of Attraction as mere positive thinking or cognitive self-fulfilling prophecy. The truth of the Law of Attraction couldn't be farther from this assumption. Diving Into the Uncharted Subconscious for Pearls of Ancient Wisdom By : Paula Andrea Pyle We are going on a short esoteric psycho-analytic trip. But, you must first agree that you will willingly participate without preconditioned ideas attached. You will need a pen and paper. Ready? Let’s do it. How Living In a Successful Community Empowers Your Psyche By : RoseannaLeaton Success breeds success. This is a phrase which we are all familiar with. How can you position yourself to learn from another's success and allow their success blueprint to rub off on you? Feel More Confident Today By : Susan Leigh We determine our level of confidence by how we think and feel. As such it can be influenced by us and our actions. Here are some ways to help us feel more confident today. Authentic Human Development: Connecting to the Shadow in Us By : Paula Andrea Pyle Of all the educational psychology courses we could take in self-improvement, development, enlightenment, none would be as gratifying as one afternoon's worth of getting to know our shadow: the neglected and shunned part of ourselves. Personal Power By : Karen Fagan Empowerment Expert Personal empowerment, self confidence and happiness. Eliminate Self-Talk: Gain Clarity By : Paula Andrea Pyle We are constantly bombarded with all sorts of conflicting messages throughout the day. So many variant voices get stuck in our heads. It's difficult to separate the impeding messages from the pertinent ones. In the midst, of the confusion, we also add to the tumultuous mix, the sound of our own reverberating conflicted ideas and partially ingested summaries. Too often, we try to soothe the troubled waters by "talking ourselves' into things which we would really rather turn away from. Clarity... Living Life from the Inside Out By : Doc Dreyfus Too often people define themselves by things, titles, money, and possessions. No matter how much they have, it is never enough. And when they lose them, they feel even more empty. This is living life from the outside in. This article turns the paradigm upside down suggesting that true happiness can be found by living life from the inside out. How to Use Meridian Tapping and the Law of Attraction to Tap Into Infinite Possibility By : Nanette Geiger If you've developed a lot of resistance to something in your life, chances are it's already played a big part in shaping who you are, and obviously in creating that resistance.It seems ironic that when we resort to resisting something, it simply comes back at us in different ways, and manifests into our lives even more. From a Law of Attraction point of view it simply means that whatever you disapprove of or don't like will manifest back to into your life. The Key to Effective Affirmations By : Danea Horn Affirmations are a powerful way to instill new positive beliefs. When you work with the way your mind naturally learns, affirmations become an effective means for change. Discover the importance of repetition and learn easy tips for incorporating affirmations into your life. Imagination - The Genie Inside Your Mind By : Veronica Hay I believe that one of the greatest gifts we have been given is our imagination. It costs nothing to access, is available 24/7 and is our doorway to freedom. With imagination, we have inside of us the most amazing ability to change our state and transform our life in a moment. How Do You Know That Hypnosis Will Work For You? By : RoseannaLeaton A lot of people do not really know what hypnosis is about or how it works. Most would like it to work for them but doubt that it could. They are incorrect in this latter assumption. 53 Ego Maniac Tips For An Excellent 2011 By : Ego Invenio By now the excitement and fuss of the start of January has passed, many people have completed the first full week back in the swing of things (and in fact, for some, the swing never even stooped) but more importantly, the year itself is under way. So what better time to share a few tips with you to help make this the most excellent year of your life to date. Step Back for a Broader Perspective By : Maureen Weisner, M.Ed., PCC Life is challenging. Sometimes the smartest thing we can do is to step back and look sideways at a current challenge or circumstance. What if it really wasn't a problem? Life Coach Recommends, Go With First Impressions Buying or Renting a Home By : StephanieAlt Over the years I have consulted with friends, family members, and clients, about potential rental properties, and real estate purchases. One of the benefits of intuition is that information comes any time and any where. Although meeting face to face is more personal, modern technology now gives us the opportunity to converse, and see one another online. And phone sessions are convenient, and expedient, when something needs to be clarified quickly, like house hunting. Being Mindful for Positive Living By : L. Krystalina Soash Concepts like mindful eating, mindful walking, mindful golfing, and mindful just-about-anything have a purpose in our lives. The true purpose is to help make us aware of our thoughts that lead us to make choices that benefit our overall well-being. How Different Are Our Perceptions? By : Adam Bowman We use our perception to make since of the world. It gives us direction, forms our values and influences our relationships, decisions and realities. Our lives are so intimately connected to our perception that most of the time, we fail to realize its influence upon us and we begin to see our perceptions as truth and matter of fact. Do You Really Own a Brain? By : drturi I wonder what it would take for me to reach the scientific community and make them realize that their researches are so ridiculous and represent such a waste of time and more waste of tax dollars. These new scientists “kids on the block” are so young, so innocent so unaware and so prone to misconceive the real “mechanics” of the human brain just because they can only follow the footpath of those they erroneously trust to acquire more of their logical academically oriented wisdom. Hypnosis Mp3s Help You to Be Healthy Wealthy and Wise By : RoseannaLeaton Hypnosis opens your mind to new opportunities, allowing you to see things in a different way. How you approach situations dictates the outcome. Hypnosis is easy to use by simply listening to a hypnosis mp3. How to Take Hold of Your Mind Power for Maximum Attraction By : Nanette Geiger Whenever you want to create or manifest a new experience or life for yourself, there is always a strong tendency for the mind to retreat. Effectively Using the Law of Attraction Means More Than Having Positive Thoughts By : Nanette Geiger Recently I got an email from a subscriber who expressed a concern about how she claims that I stir up problems that are facing many people in our current economic situation. Most people with unstable finances express being very afraid and unsure of the future. Too Many Thoughts, Not Enough Happiness By : Ron Forte - Positive Psychology Coaching Feeling overwelmed by invasive thoughts can rob you of happiness by distracting you from the present. In this article, we will describe how we can limit our thoughts from getting in our way of fully experiencing the present moment while increasing our well being. Manifesting Wealth With the Law of Attraction: Recognizing and Eliminating Limiting Beliefs By : Nanette Geiger This situation is like a less dramatic version of being in a runaway car that's about to head off of a cliff. There's already a lot of energy and momentum racing forward. The only way to save yourself from an untimely death would be to halt the vehicle and go in a different direction, away from the cliff. Law of Attraction Coach Explains The Concept of Energy Management By : Nanette Geiger Manifestation of your desires is a result of well-managed energy and persistence. Consider that the Law of Attraction is always, continuously true, and is always acting on the desires and thoughts of all people. Your body's energy, mostly your brain's energy, has a huge effect on what shows up in your reality. Defining Moments, Insights and Affirmations that Help Us Survive Abuse By : StephanieAlt For those who have grown up in less than ideal families subjected to one or more forms of abuse, some describe a defining moment that lifts them up and out of what feels like living hell. Have you had such a moment? Law of Attraction Coach Shares the 3 Keys to Law of Attraction Success By : Nanette Geiger Wealth Attraction can often be frustrating and difficult when you're kept down by limiting beliefs about yourself and your world. McCarthy Breakup and Love Attraction By : Nanette Geiger Hollywood is not known for long term love relationships. Once the lust, passion and newness wears off, whether it's in Hollywood and in your neck of the woods, relationships take a degree of presence and maturity to go the distance. Quantum Learning - Where are You Living? By : Kecia Burcham Article defining Quantum Learning and the concept of living "above or below the line". New Perspective on Finding Lost Objects By : The Queen of Color™ Finding lost objects requires a shift in our perspective. As a psychic, I am often asked to find things. When I taught design and color theory my mantra was, “You cannot solve a problem until you define it.” In my article I describe a unique way to find those missing objects and solve one of life's numerous annoying problems. What Will They Think? - Love and Approval Addiction By : Margaret Paul, Ph.D. Are you love and approval addicted? Are you constantly worried about what others think of your looks and/or performance? Law Of Attraction Coach: Live An Unconditional Life Part 1 By : Nanette Geiger In this article I discuss what it means to live an unconditional life: that is, to feel peace and joy regardless of life circumstance. Law Of Attraction Love: Are You Struggling To Grasp The Law Of Attraction? By : Nanette Geiger Nanette Geiger discusses the Law of Attraction and how your mind inhibits your ability to truly manifest your desires. Focused Energy By : Susan Russo Relationships & Self Development Expert You can drain your energy supply or replenish it by what you choose to think about. Learn to think right and you'll learn to live right. Temporal Tapping To Bring Yourself Into Harmony By : Nanette Geiger Everything is energy. Even medical science measures the electrical impulses in our cells with EKGs. What do you mean I don´t feel? I feel great! By : Mats Loefkvist It would be wonderful if you changed your life before you get ill. Don’t wait until you pushed yourself to your limit. Once your body falls apart there will be no choice anymore. The only way to survive will be to change your life and to heal yourself although at this state it will take a major effort. The Secret to Stepping Beyond Self-Esteem By : John Schinnerer Ph.D. What one single trait has been found to be healthier than self-esteem? Which trait has been shown to lead to more resiliency than self-esteem? What trait turns down the volume on negative emotions like guilt and self-loathing following a huge mistake? Most people are quite harsh with themselves regarding their own mistakes. Many are self-punitive, disparaging and hypercritical of their own mistakes. Discover a better tool for a happier, more successful life here.