About the author MARGARET PAUL, PH.D. |
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Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is the co-creator of Inner Bonding®, a transformational six-step spiritual healing process. She is a best-selling author, relationship expert, noted public speaker, workshop leader, chaplain, educator, humanitarian, consultant, and Inner Bonding facilitator. She has been counseling individuals and couples since 1968, and has been leading groups, teaching classes and workshops, and working with partnerships and businesses since 1973. Margaret is passionate about evolving and teaching the process of Inner Bonding, and administering her popular website, http://www.innerbonding.com.
Margaret is the co-author of Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You? (over 1,000,000 copies sold), Free to Love, Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By My Kids?, Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?...The Workbook, Healing Your Aloneness, The Healing Your Aloneness Workbook, and author of Inner Bonding and Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By God? Her books have been translated into ten languages: German, Italian, Danish, French, Spanish, Portuguese, Chinese, Japanese, Dutch and Hungarian. Healing Your Aloneness and The Healing Your Aloneness Workbook are bestsellers in Germany.
In 2010, Margaret completed a 12 years project of putting the Inner Bonding® process into an in-depth software program called SelfQuest - http://selfquest.com. SelfQuest is a powerful tool for emotional healing, spiritual growth, healing relationship issues and developing personal responsibility.
Margaret has three children and three grandchildren. In her spare time she is an artist.
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Have you often wondered what to say or do in conflict? This is a book of role modeling regarding how to take loving care of yourself in conflict with partners, friends, children, parents and professionals. It teaches the profound 6 Steps of Inner Bonding so that you can learn to access your own right, best answers in every situation. |
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Intresting facts about Inner Bonding
For many years I searched for a process that would heal quickly on a deep level, and give people the tools to self-heal and learn how to take loving care of themselves. This is Inner Bonding.
Of the 14 reviews on Amazon, 13 people gave it a 5 star rating. Here is what two of these peope wrote:
" I actually stumbled across these ladies on the internet while frantically searching for information on self esteem. I had found myself, once again, very confused and lost with how to even look at myself anymore. I am not religous and had judgements on self help that were less than savory. I honestly wanted someone to talk to, but the prospect of paying for someone to listen felt cheap and almost disgusting. All I felt I needed was a guide, some understanding, and some tools. I can't understand why tools for love and success should cost anyway when the outcome of not having them is so damaging and expensive in all aspects. Anyway, on their website is a PDF file of 40 pages that explains in outstanding clarity and power the 6 steps of inner bonding. It was free. I then spent the next 3-4 hours crying in relief and amazment that I could relate, understand, put to work, and actually FEEL what they were writing about. No, it is not a quick fix, but relief was in sight and could now be actually attained for good. Reading about inner bonding and the whole process was the sweetest and most intimate 3-4 hours that I have had in a very long time. I had not felt that close to myself before. If you are jaded, believe that nothing can fix you, are picky about how you deal with what you know is a never ending destructive cycle, and don't want to pay a dime (yet); read the PDF file from their website. Hopefully, you'll have an open heart, and surrender (the good kind of surrender) enough to let it reach you a little. It doesn't take much. If nothing has worked for you, it's probably because it wasn't realistic, thorough, or relative (or maybe you could always pick it apart). These processes that they explain will relate and you won't be able to help the feeling that your tools have been attained and that with some work (very sweet and true work) your healing will begin and you'll feel free from self destructive cycles, addictions, blame, deppression etc. You owe it to yourself. HIGHLY RECCOMENDED."
"I have to say from the outset that I used to think the whole "inner child" thing was a bunch of psychobabble nonsense. Then, I was confronted with some issues in my life that proved me wrong. As is my wont, I immediately began to research "inner child work" and to do some. This book was the most helpful of all that I read. The author talks about the importance of integrating the "child" inside all of us with the "adult" -- bringing the emotional side of our lives into contact with the rational side. I can honestly say that following this author's suggestions has had a huge, positive impact on my life"
To purchase the book:
innerbonding.com or Amazon |
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| Excerpts from Inner Bonding |
Tom had never been in a therapist's office and he wasn't happy about being there now. He sat stiffly in his dark blue suit, unaware that his fist was clenched and his expression stern. He would never have come at all, but the CDO of his company took him aside last week and told him that his outbrusts of temper were underminding employee morale and driving potential customers away. "Get some help," the CEO hold him. Frustrated and angry, but seeing no other choice, Tom made an appointment.
After we talked for a while about Tom's stress level and work load, I said, "It sounds like you're not taking very good care of yourself."
"Take care of myself? That's not realistic. I have too much to do!"
"But you fly into unpredicatble rages, and you could lose your job because of that. And being so stressed out, you're likely to lose your health as well. Can you really afford not to take care of yourself?"
"I don't think I can," he said softly. "I don't know how."
Tom was telling the truth. He didn't know how; he'd never learned. |
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| What other have to say about Inner Bonding |
"The system of reparenting discussed in this book will supply you with the most loving, dependable, supportive friend you'll ever have - yourself. What a joy to know you're not alone anymore."
--Lindsay Wagner, actress and co-author of The High Road to Health
"Margaret Paul offers us a simple and very effective tool for healing our inner upsets and quieting the confusion in our minds. I recommend that you use this valuable tool daily on your path to wholeness."
--Susan Jeffers, Ph.D., author of Feel the Fear, Do It Anyway, and Dare to Connect
"Inner Bonding" is a powerful book for anyone interested in quality relationships. It offers practical tools, not just theory, to help us reach inside and heal those deep problems and addictions that have held us back for so many years."
--Thomas Crum, author of The Magic of Conflict
"'Inner Bonding' is a welcome addition to the material on the Inner Child. It gives us a pragmatic, solution-oriented framework for resolving inner conflict."
--Stephanie Covington, Ph.D., clinical consultant and author of Awakening Your Sexuality
"A wake-up call to the most exciting miracle of the universe: your life."
--Peter and Lynda Guber, film producers
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